Cougar is term for woman in her thirties, forties or even fifties who is actively dating younger men, typically men in their twenties. Here are some dos and don'ts of cougar relationships.
Do Buy Her Flowers
Cougar ladies are women like all other women and they love to be treated romantically. A bouquet of flowers will go a long way but throw in a hand-written note on how much you enjoy her company, for a personal touch. Trust me, it works way good than an Sms. Even an old-fashioned box of chocolates will still be a great sign of affection.
Dating Guides
Do Not Talk About Marriage
Cougar dating is not about long-term commitment, it is about an arrangement that is beneficial to both parties here and now. Talking about kids and marriage, planning to buy a house together etc will only spoil the mood. In fact you should early on make it clear that the connection is not going to last forever.
Do Ask Her for Advice
Young girls will want you to be the exquisite prince on a white horse and guess all correctly the first time. Older women have learned to be more outpatient and will treat you more like a boy who needs to be taught how to deal with women. Do not be ashamed to ask if you're doing something wrong, you might be surprised on the level of understanding that older women can offer to younger men.
Do Not Be Possessive or Jealous
So she has a history, she's been nearby for a while. You knew that from the beginning. She probably already had some control freak who tried to make her an obedient little woman and fail. You cannot and should not try that. If she wants a night out with her friends you should just gracefully accept that as her right. It's not like you're planning to marry anyway.
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